a long time ago i was in a hotel on the beach in pusan, korea in the basement game room where i spent many many hours playing video games.  i was usually alone in there but one day a young white boy in a black leather jacket walked in and started playing one of the machines.  how it happened that all these years later i sit here married to that young boy’s older brother in a town i’d never heard of in a place i’d never imagined i could/would be is a long and winding story. the fact of it makes me happy and hopeful. the idea that something so unimaginable could be written in the stars and you have no idea!